I'm looking for sexual chemistry. It's the only way it's going to be fun and easy. I also don't want the pressure to have an orgasm. I want you to care but if there is pressure to do that then it won't be fun. I do yoga which keeps me fit and quite flexible. I'm very sexually liberated and very open minded so toys, and anal sex are options. Also I love to kiss without a lot of tongue. I need good quality mental foreplay and a guy who can make me laugh after that I will want more.